In our lives, we often struggle and exhaust every bit of energy looking to have the best things in life. A good job, a great car, an impecable house to make a home and we often find it if we look hard enough. Now, because these things come with a number of history records and so on, it makes it easier for us to decide in wich to invest our time and money.
"Show me the facts."- says a popular comercial on TV. Problem is that a lot of people are trying to apply this line when it comes to relationships.
This should't be applied to any person based on how good or how bad their past is. Why? Because everyone changes. I have seen angels become demons and viseversa. Besides no one judges the same. If you ask people who have known me, some liked me and some didn't regardless of who I was. Therefor you wouldn't be able to decide wether or not I'm a trustworthy person.
Relationships are one of the few things you can't predict. How long will they last, would you be betrayed, will it be worth it... and so on. And because we are not objects, there are no facts you can ask for at the moment of commintment. Tough. Very, very tough. Right?
So take it from me and just go for it. Get to know the person who caught your eye, communicate, date, love, and the results will leave you in awe.
When I met Kristy, her tattoos kinda made me wonder what kind of person she was and what kind of background she came from. To my surprise, she comes from a very caring and loving family (way more than what I can say for mine) and that's exactly how she is. Loving, selfless, caring...and the list goes on and on. Almost two years into our relationship, here we are as if we have just met. We've been thru thick and thin together and today we have a gorgeous baby girl Xiamarae who will be three months this June.
She didn't know me and I didn't know her. We just took eachother's word of commitment, respect and love to make it work.
Main logic is, we are not what you see. No facts can tell you enough of one another. So next time you are thinking of asking-"Show me the facts."- make sure you are in a car dealer.
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